How to Find Out Who Is My Wife Texting without Her Knowing

My friend told me that he caught his wife cheating through text messages. Those shocking messages end his 7-year marriage. “My wife always chats with someone on the phone but never tells me. So I want to know who is my wife texting.”. Now, I’ll tell you what he did to catch a cheater from a first-person perspective. Of course, I have his permission to tell the story.

3 Ways to Read My Wife’s Text Messages from My iPhone/Android Secretly

My wife needs more privacy and be emotionally distant with me for months. She stops telling me interesting things on her work. And she hangs out with friends more often than before. I don’t know who those friends are. She brings her phone everywhere. So I need to see who my wife is texting through my phone. Here’re the methods about text message spying I have ever tried.

eyeZy – Secret SMS Tracker

I want to spy on not only which guy my wife is texting, but also other phone activities. I quickly search phone monitor apps and then I choose eyeZy. Because I don’t need to install a phone spy app on my wife’s phone. I don’t know her lock screen password. So eyeZy really helps me to move on. We both use iPhone. If you use Android, you may need to install a phone spy app to move on.

Its SMS tracker can help me see all incoming, outgoing, and even deleted messages remotely. I can see the phone number who she is texting in real-time. Also, I can see what she is doing with those hidden apps, searching history, and more. Here’re the detailed steps.

Step 1: Visit the eyeZy website. Create a user account first. I register with my Gmail. It’s fast. Then choose a plan and complete the payment.

Step 2: In the eyeZy wizard screen, click the Get Started button. Select Apple, iOS or Android as the type of device. Just do as the on-screen guide shows. It’s easy to follow.

Step 3: Now, go to the eyeZy dashboard on your phone or computer. Click Text Messages under Social Spotlight. Later, I can see all her sent/received/deleted text messages in real-time.

There is no phone drop battery suddenly issue while eyeZy runs on iPhone and Android. So even though you install an eyeZy phone spying app on Android, your spouse won’t notice it.

Message Sync

I know my wife’s iCloud account and password. So I can sync her messages to my iPhone by signing into her iCloud account. Well, if you can access your wife’s phone and unlock it, you can see who she is texting too. Here’re the detailed steps.

Step 1: Unlock my wife’s iPhone. Go to Settings and tap the Apple ID icon.

Step 2: Turn on sync next to the iMessage option. Wait for a while to sync all her text messages to iCloud.

Step 3: Go back to my phone. Sign into my wife’s iCloud account.

Step 4: See all her messages remotely on my iPhone.

Note: Make sure your wife is away from her phone for a lot of time. Because message syncing is time-consuming. Moreover, she may notice that message sync is turned on and then turn it off.

So it is a free but risky and limited way to read my wife’s text messages on my phone.

Network Provider

No matter which phone brand and operating system you use, there is always a network provider. In most cases, you can see all incoming and outgoing messages. I don’t do this. But if you have no other ideas. You can call the network provider’s customer support to see how it works. This is also a free but limited way.

That’s 3 ways that I use to see which man my wife is texting to. I don’t hire a hacker or private investigator. Because it may not work at the early stage of an affair, especially when she just has emotional affairs. Also, I’m not sure whether she will mad at me if she knows what I have done.

After text spying, I asked myself whether I want to keep this relationship or not. To be honest, I’m still love my wife. But I can’t accept it and move on after being cheated. Maybe both of us need some time to rethink it.

Anyway, if you want to check whether she has a secret lover or not, the first thing you need to do is reading her text messages. Also, don’t forget to check incoming/outgoing phone calls, popular cheating apps, searching history, and others on her phone.